Matchmaking

I've been around people who met through another person or through other people. And I do think it's a wonderful thing when you can do that for somebody. But there is a down side to matchmaking. I think when you don't listen to the person who's searching for somebody things could really go down hill and quick. Everybody have their preferences of what they like and what they don't like. So I feel like when you're playing matchmaker; you really should and need to listen. If that person tells you they don't want somebody younger than them, you really need to listen. Not everybody wants a younger man or woman. If somebody tells you they want somebody who's physically attractive don't turn around and call that person superficial. 

People are so quick to call people superficial when playing matchmaker, and that's very hurtful and judgmental. That's just not right. Don't go around saying you'll help somebody find love, and then don't want to know what they person is looking for. That's a dangerous situation really waiting to happen. 

I can talk from experience. I was matched up with a younger dude, and to be honest he just wasn't the one for me at all. He way to young and then he lived in the past. I can't build a friendship with somebody who is stuck in the past. So just be careful when introducing people. 

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